I must admit, I have never been into the sappy Christmas movies that we see yearly on Hallmark, Lifetime and now OWN. As of the last two years I have gravitated towards them more. Not necessarily for the “you can only be happy at Christmas if you have your Knight in Shining Armour to take home to your family” message. Yes, it reminds us that nobody wants to be lonely; but true love comes when it’s supposed to come. What I have found seems to be a deeper message.
Don’t get me wrong, every year I watch “It’s A Wonderful Life” and cry my big eyes out! It’s my favorite traditional Christmas movie of all time! I know every year that Clarence will get his wings but it makes me cry nonetheless. The hardships we saw with poor George Bailey and his family just simply trying to make it holds a special place in my heart. The sappier Christmas movies these days attempt to do the same but don’t bring the same effect of movies of their prior days.
Life gets busy and often hectic. We get into our own routines, we make plans for bigger and better, and we often find ourselves feeling like we are missing out on something. Next thing you know time has passed by and we wake up feeling unfulfilled. The Christmas movies have these reminders that we need to take a step back, remember who we are, what’s important, and to take charge of our lives.
I always watch these women who remind me of myself: overworked, slightly jaded, and ready for something new. Sound familiar? I think these are a few of the reasons many of us snuggle up on our couches winter after winter to watch Christmas movies. Maybe…just maybe… the little child in us still believes in Christmas miracles!
Agreed! To me some of the best memories about Christmas I have are from childhood. Those moments were shared with loved ones that are no longer here. Time flys and we need to cherish things more.